The Body May Be Weak But Is The Mind Willing

As a runner, I believe running is a metaphor for life. It's not a sprint but a marathon. A marathon is an endurance race that will test and push your body to the limit. To complete a marathon, which is 26.2 miles, takes proper training, perseverance, and determination. Training is physical as well as mental. Your body will get tried and tired, that is a fact. Many experience what we call "hitting a wall". This is when your body runs out of energy and you feel like you can't continue because your body has depleted all of it's carbohydrate reserves. You are literally running on empty. This is where you rely on your training, tap into your spirit, and mental fortitude to cross the finish line.

If you have ever watched a marathon, you will see runners toward the end of the race, struggling to maintain proper form, slowing in pace, experiencing muscle fatigue but grinding mentally with continuous movement to push to the finish line. Unfortunately, many who start marathons do not finish. This could be due to injuries, fatigue or not meeting the course cut off time. So how do you complete a marathon? One mile at a time. This is probably the most valuable lesson I have learned.

In life we have many responsibilities and obligations. We all have a to do list that seems like it is never ending and too daunting just thinking about it. The idea to give up, procrastinate or ignore it is tempting. The key is to work on one tasks at a time. Stay focused on the present, avoid thinking about the next task on the list. This is where our mental ability and discipline to stay committed kicks in. We may be physically weary and tired but our spirit and mind is strong enough to carry us. Talent, goals and even strength will get us to the starting line, aid in progressing along the course, the path, the journey. But discipline, consistency and perseverance will carry us across the finish line. There's a saying, the body may be weak but the mind is willing. The Bible scripture states, "the spirit is willing but the body is weak", Matthew 26:41. This is one of many scriptures that carry me in life. 

My hope is that whatever comes your way, when the body is tired, do not be tempted to give in. Tap into your spirit, your mental fortitude to overcome and reach your goals. Keep going, run YOUR race, and cross the finish line.

                  

My body was weak but my mental fortitude carried me across the Ironman Maryland finish line.

Do You See What I See

What do I see? I see yesterday. I see the streets of Chicago. Life wasn't easy but when is life ever easy? 

What do I see? I see love, even when I didn't love myself. 

What do I see? I see home. My senses stimulated with the aroma of herbs and spices. The sound of improvisation, complex rythms, soulful, melodic riffs. The warmth of laughter, ancestry, hospitality. 

What do I see? I see family. I see generations of pride, struggles, traditions, love. 

What do I see? I see a soul. A soul that experienced loss and love. 

I am full, life was lived. 

What do I see? I see the love of God.

My mother didn't realize that I snapped a photo of her looking out the window at dinner. 

"Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood" 

— Ralph Waldo Emerson 

What Is Your Why?

As I mentioned in my last post, I recently completed my first Ironman triathlon. Even now, I marvel at this incredible accomplishment. Before the race, I constantly asked myself, "How will I ever complete such a monumental task?" But as my training progressed, the answer, became clear: one swim, stroke at a time, one step at a time, and one mile at a time. The journey required me to focus on each day as it came, and it was the culmination of countless daily runs, swim sessions, and bike rides that led me to the finish line. There's a well-known saying: "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." This phrase echoed in my mind throughout my training, especially during the moments when I asked myself, "Why am I doing this?" I had to remind myself of my passion. I had dreamed of completing an Ironman for years, visualizing that finish line and the victory that awaited me. My "why" was clear: to prove to myself that I am strong, determined and disciplined, that I can tackle hard things and overcome any obstacle.

But my "why" didn't end with me. It extended beyond personal achievement. I wanted to be an example, particularly for other African American women, showing that living an active lifestyle is possible and empowering. Statistics show that less than 10% of people have ever completed a marthon, and of that group, fewer than 3% are African American. Even more astonishing, less than 0.01% of the population has completed an Ironman, an among them, fewer than 1% are African American. There is so much room for more of us to embrace this challenge and shatter these barriers.

Crossing that Ironman finish line taught me lessons that I will carry forward into other areas of my life. It reminded me of the power of perseverance, the strength of believing in myself, and the value of showing others what's possible.

So, I ask you: "What is your WHY?" How can your why not only fuel your journey but also inspire others to dream big, push past their limits, and rewrite what's possible? Your journey matters, and your story has the pwoer to light the way for others.

"Keep flying higher, so others are inspired to flly with you."~Oh Great!

"Find your why, and you'll find your way."~John C. Maxwell

Walking Into 2025

Welcome to Soleful Steps, where I strive to uplift, encourage and inform readers. This is my first blog post, yay!

As 2024 comes to an end, I reflect on the highs and lows of the year. They year began with several professional conferences, where I not only learned valuable information to as a registrant to implement in my career but also as a presenter gaining experience and confidence in public speaking. 

By spring, triathlon training was in full effect. I completed a few Olympic distance triathlons early spring and 70.3 Eagleman half ironman in June, in prepation for my 140.6 Ironman Maryland in September. Spring and summer flew by with my ironman training. This summer was brutally hot and training for the running portion of the triathlong was a struggle to say the least. With cycling, I get a slight breezes, so it's a bit more bearable in the heat. Even with my training, I was able to squeeze in a few fun events. I spent my birthday weekend in the mountains of West Virginia (see pictures). I continued my training while catching beautiful sunset and sunrise views. A few weeks later, I drove to Rocky Mount, NC to do the Black Farm Tour century bike ride. A century bike ride is a 100 mile cycling event. On one of the hotest days of the year, we rode through rural farm lands of Rocky Mount. Many of the farms in the area are black owned farms. They provided our hydration and fueling along the course. The homemade pickle juic was a lifesaver! This was followed by a weekend trip to Philadelphia for our regional convention for Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Because I was still training for my race, we packed our bikes and was able to get in a bike ride along the scenic Schuylkill River and Schuylkill Trail. I love sight seeing while running or cycling, it's a great way to see the sights!  

In the final weeks up to my race, I had some firsts and adventurous open water swim sessions. Twice this summer, I swam in the dark before sunrise! Now, I've ran and cycled in the dark but I've never swam in the dark! It was excited but scary, but I survived! 

September 21st, I completed my first Ironman distance race. An Ironman is a total of 140.6 miles, that consists of a 2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike and 26.2 run. The thought of this was daunting but it has been a goal of mine for a few years now. This was a major accomplishment and has changed me. If I can complete an Ironman at the spry age of 55, what else can I accomplish!

After watchingThe Six Tripple Eight movie, Wicked several times, I am inspired, proud and motivated as an African American woman! So I'm going into 2025 with a new sense of "badassness", defying gravity! I'm looking forward to what the year will bring. What was your milestones for 2024 and what are you looking forward to for 2025? 

Merry Christimas, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!